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If you would like to see our calendar of events then please use the drop down Singles Events tab or click here to go straight to the calendar!

So you've seen our calendar of exciting Singles Events through our Singles Club, or joined our Dating Agency for Personal Dating Introductions, and you feel you are on the right path to finding that someone special -- love and romance may be in the air!

Here are some of our favourite suggestions for dating, socialising and meeting someone special in Essex, Herts, Suffolk, Norfolk, Cambridge, Kent, Berkshire and London. The high majority of hotels, banqueting suites and country clubs which we use are mainly four and five star. They are well located geographically and easily accessible, with good parking facilities. Our venues our exclusive and have luxurious, inviting surroundings with spacious dance floors, round tables, well decorated with candelabra and beautiful table linen. Members always have the option to stay over at these venues and take advantage of the hotels pool, gym and spa facilities.

It is very helpful when our single members suggest new venues for us as we like to keep our programme of Singles Events alive and interesting.


You will be personally greeted on arrival at all of these venues, so please do not worry if you are coming alone. Enjoy our guide to great dates, wherever love takes you!


London Singles: Romance and Dating in London

We organise fantastic singles events all over London. We mainly choose venues which have a great atmosphere where we can dine and dance, venues which include Salvador & Amanda in Covent Garden, Floripa in Shoreditch, Cuban Restaurant Floridita on Orwell Street, and Dover Street Dine & Dance in Mayfair. We also regularly visit the Ritz and Claridges for Sunday Lunch and we are looking forward to hosting events at Shuka Zulu which is a forthcoming event.


Essex Singles: Romance and Dating in Essex

Singles dating in Essex have a wonderful variety of places to go and things to do. The Old Harlow Churchgate Hotel is a lovely dining venue, or book in for a weekend's stay. We hold exclusive events at Stock Brook Country Club, Pontlands Park, Hutton Mount Banqueting, Channels Golf and Country Club, Quendon Hall, De Rougemont Manor, Furze Hill, The Blue Strawberry, The Westcliffe Hotel, Woolston Manor, Marks Tey Hotel Carter’s Vineyard, The Three Rivers Golf and Country Club, Crondon Park, Parklands, Newland Hall, Friern Manor Country House Hotel, Waltham Abbey Marriott Hotel, Hylands House, Vaulty Manor, The Rose and Crown, we hold great singles events at all of these fabulous venues and many more!


Herts Singles: Romance and Dating in Herts

Hertfordshire is a wonderful place to date, many members have met through our successful Dating Agency. Our Personal Introduction Service has proved a great hit with our Hertfordshire Singles and romance is only a mouse-click away. For romantic dinners or singles weekends away, consider La Brasserie at the Manor of Groves Hotel, set in 150 acres of parkland; or Down Hall, a magnificent 5 star Italian style mansion set in acres of landscaped gardens. For a more casual taste of Italy in Hitchin, Marcello's offers excellent cuisine. We hold our fantastic Singles Events in the above venues as well as The Cheshunt Marriott, The Thistle St Albans, Ponsbourne De Vere Hotel, Beales Hotel, Hunton Park, Redcoats, The Hertfordshire Golf Club, The Swallow Churchgate Hotel, Hanbury Manor, Theobalds Park, Fanhams Hall Hotel, Sopwell House Hotel and Letchworth Hall Hotel plus many more! So if you live in Hertfordshire and would like to meet someone special, join our singles party nights or our Personal Introduction Agency for Professionals.


Suffolk Singles: Romance and Dating in Suffolk

Suffolk offers so many romantic options for dating. Hintlesham Hall is a haven of comfort within a Grade 1 Listed Elizabethan manor house, offering fine dining and beautiful guest rooms. For more casual fare, the Bull Hotel Long Melford & Restaurant is an historic Tudor building with a beautiful Elizabethan fireplace in the lounge, and antique carvings in the Cordell Restaurant. Across the Room also holds stunning evenings in Belstead Brook, Seckford Hall, Woodhall Manor, Otley Hall, Ravenswood Hall, Ufford Park Hotel and Golf Club, The Four Horseshoes, Claydon Country House Hotel, The Swan Lavenham, The Mill Hotel, Somerleyton Hall and Many More! So come on Suffolk Singles, join the fun at our over 30s singles Party Nights, our exclusive singles Dinners or if you prefer a more intimate experience, join our Dating Agency. There is no need to spend a weekend alone again!


Norfolk Singles: Romance and Dating in Norfolk

Norfolk is such a beautiful part of the world and offers a wealth of breath taking venues, used by Across the Room for our Singles Club events. These include Dunston Hall De Vere Hotel, Gissing Hall, The Wroxham Hotel, Sprowston Manor, Barnham Broom Hotel Golf and Spa, Caister Hall Hotel, Lynford Hall, The Maid Head Hotel, Morley Old Hall, The Old Rectory Hotel, Weston Park, Fritton House, Happisburgh Manor, Barnham Broom Hotel, Golf and Spa, The Swan Inn, Loch Fyne and many more! Our over 30s Party Nights are also held regularly at The Ramada Jarvis in Norwich. We have had many successes with our Dating Agency in Norfolk so if you belong to the Singles Club and would like to try our Personal Introduction Service please call us to find out more! Our Dating Agency could be just what you need.


Cambridgeshire Singles: Romance and Dating in Cambridge

As well as punting on the river and intimate Match Maker Dinners at The De Luca, Tobouche and La Raza, Across the Room has also held Dinner Dances and Black Tie Balls for our single members at The Royal Cambridge, The Best Western Orton Hall Hotel, Anstey Hall, Chilford Hall Hotel, Longstowe Hall, Chippenham Park, University Arms Hotel, The Cambridge Belfry,  Huntingdon Marriott Hotel, The Bedford Lodge Hotel, Menzies Cambridge Hotel and Golf Club, The Hotel Du Vin and many more! Cambridge is such a romantic city and our Dating Agency has proved highly successful in this area with many marriages and couples finding their match.


Kent Singles: Romance and Dating in Kent

The Donnington Manor Hotel has a wonderful rustic charm, and is home to the oak timbered Chartwell Restaurant. The Bull Inn Hotel in Wrotham is a cosy restaurant for Sunday lunches near the Downs. The very charming High Rocks offers a lovely day out in Tunbridge Wells, and the rare chance to arrive for drinks or dinner by steam train! Across the Room holds events in these venues as well as the Mercure Tunbridge Wells Hotel, Brans Hatch Thistle, The Spa Hotel, Sundridge Park, Leeds Castle, Bexleyheath Marriott Hotel, Bridgewood Manor, Inn on The Lake, Chilston Park Hotel and many more! Our Dating Agency in Kent has been a great success, the Singles Events are always well attended with a great atmosphere – you will always be greeted with a warm welcome.


Berkshire Singles: Romance and Dating in Berkshire

Our Across the Room Singles Club offers tours of Windsor Castle followed by afternoon tea enjoyed at the Famous Crooked House. Match Maker Dinners are held at The Manor Hotel and La Bodega. Dinner Dances and Black Tie Balls are held at The Castello, The Heart and Garter Hotel, The Windsor Grill, Wentworth Club, Northcote House, The Royal Berkshire Hotel, Fredricks Hotel and Spa, The Grovefield House, The Vineyard, The Forbury Hotel, Stoke Park, The Royal Adelaide Hotel and many more!


Surrey Singles: Romance and Dating in Surrey

Some of our favourite events in Surrey include The Farmhouse Restaurant in Guildford, and Osso Buco in Weybridge. The Farmhouse is a beautiful venue, part of the Rokers family and situated on the outskirts of the town. Osso Buco is a wonderful restaurant run by a married couple in Weybridge. We've never had a bad word said of any of our events in Surrey and we're very proud of our presence in the area.